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Getting Married On Valentine’s Day? You’re More Likely To Get Divorced, Claims Study

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Are you one of those couples that tend to think that Valentines Day is particularly romantic? Have you even perhaps thought of getting married on that day, or on another gimmicky date, perhaps one that has a particular sentimental meaning to the both of you? Well stop it. Cease and desist immediately. Step away from the wedding invitations.

According to a new working paper by economists at the University of Melbourne, weddings that take place on Valentines Day or other special-number dates, including those like 01/02/03, are 18 to 36 percent more likely to end in divorce than weddings on ordinary dates. Remarkably, 11 percent of the people that do swap vows on Valentines Day are, just by their fifth anniversary, divorced. By their ninth anniversary, 21 percent of these unlucky pairings have split up.

Similarly, those that declare their undying love in front of relatives on same number dates, like 09/9/19, are not the most perpetual of unions. Five years after the fateful day, 10 percent of them have broken up. Nine years on, 19 percent have fallen out of favor with each other.

Considering five times more weddings take place on special dates, this is a frankly ludicrous consequence but the correlation appears to be there. Unsurprisingly, this is the first study of its kind in the world.

By contrast, five years on, just 8 percent of ordinary date marriages were doomed to fail. The ninth anniversary heralded only a 16 percent divorce rate.

The study, though, only focused on Dutch people, so if there is a link between these dates and shattered romantic dreams, it may be exclusive to these tall, European paramours. Still, this teams analysis involved checking the post-wedding tales of more thanone million marriages, so its unlikely to be a spurious signal or skewed data.

Of course, correlation isnt always causation, and unless you are superstitious (and therefore incorrect), its obvious that these dates in themselves arent ominous and tainted with the devils doing. These peculiar findings are more linked to why the couples chose these particular dates in the first place.

Gimmicky dates? Thumbs down. Mila Supinskaya Glashchenko/Shutterstock

People who got married on special dates were more likely to have been married before and more likely to have children already, co-author Professor David Ribar of the University of Melbourne said in a statement. Pre-existing sprogs or pregnancies do increase the chance of divorce, as studies have shown.

We also found that spouses who married on special dates were less alike, in terms of education and ages, than spouses who married on ordinary dates, co-author Dr Jan Kabtek added. Larger gaps in educational prowess and age are also more likely to foster divorce.

So if youre childless up until the date of your marriage, and you both grew up in the same decade with similar degrees, youll probably be fine to marry on Valentines Day if youre so inclined. Ultimately, though, the authors note that if your relationship is particularly strong, youre more unlikely to kiss the bride or groom on a gimmicky day.

Couples who marry on ordinary dates may be more strongly influenced by characteristics of their relationships and their compatibility than couples who marry on special dates, Ribar concluded.

Keep in mind that there are plenty of other factors that influence whether or not youre likely to get a divorce. Large differences in income, not having a honeymoon, having inordinately expensive wedding ceremonies, having far too small ceremonies, being a semi-regular churchgoer, and getting married shortly after meeting your partner all increase the chance that it wont be a case of until death do us part.

Happy ever after? Ivan Galashchuk/Shutterstock

Read more: http://www.iflscience.com/editors-blog/getting-married-on-valentines-day-youre-more-likely-to-get-divorced-claims-study/

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